Sometimes we're so concerned about giving our children what we never had growing up that we neglect to give them what we did have growing up.
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(我的划分方法如下)
Sometimes
we
are so concerned about
giving our children what we never had growing up
that
we
neglect
to give them what we did have growing up.
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翻译是：有时候我们急于给孩子提供我们成长时没有的东西，却忘记了给他们我们成长时有过的东西。
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我的问题是：这里为什么会有“却”这种转折含义在里面？难道是so ... that ...决定的？