举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。
可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is calledweight-lifting.
if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing.
Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavyburdens when they are in love.